what should i do?

September 9th, 2006 by ashie

Haiz, what can I do or tell my dad that I am tired and I really need rest?

I think most of my friends know that I help my parents on every weekend without fail. I lost so much of my youth, fun and quantity times with my love one and I don’t really complain a lot for that…

However, my dad will never spare a thought for me… He always thinks that it is must to help him and never appreciate what I had contributed to this family and his business…

For your little info, a month before my graduation, I had a big quarrel with my dad over a typical 1950s, or even 1930s, old man thinking – It is a must to help him in the shop instead of working for others…

Hey come on, I studied so much, (although it is just a diploma) he expect me to spend my most precious time in the coffee shop. I told him, I already at my early 20s now, and if I not going to see the world now, I wouldn’t have a chances anymore. Moreover, it is not my interest… On the other hand, he thinks that I will not earning as good as working for the family. Okay, maybe he got the point, but can you stop protecting me, plan my life before I tired. If I never tired, I will know which one will be a better choice for me. Anyway, my dad business wasn’t as good as before… He complains to his friends and no one actually support his side and of course I won… So, I went to look for job after my graduation.

Today (it is a Saturday) I had to work and he expect me to help him after my work. He called my phone more than 20 times and I refused to pick up. This is because I am sure that he will force me to go his shop to help him which I don’t feel like. I don’t mean not to pick up his call or work for him because I really very tired and all I want is to rest. I had been working 7 days a week (weekdays I work and weekend I go over his stall and help him) for the past 3 month. Then he threw his hp and broke it. He threatened to break my hp when the moment he reached home. Luckily, I managed to save it. Actually, I am quite guilty but I really want some rest…

What should I do to get a win-win situation? I really sick of that…

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Suay Suay Suay

September 1st, 2006 by ashie

Oh my god! Suay sheng please go away! I just simply freaking suay recently… I just don’t understand why….

For your info, I just banged my baby civic 2 weeks ago and it is beyond repair and my dad got me another 2nd hand vehicle… Then my dad’s car was hit by someone this week… Haiz…

Worst of all, today I was on my way to work… I was traveling at a v high speed then I think I was caught in camera by a traffic police… let’s pray hard that I don’t get the offence man…

Suay Suay Suay… Then I was having dinner with my parents.. I got another parking offence… WTF….

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Getting old…

July 26th, 2006 by ashie

Haiz.. yesterday i was damm suay. Already OT for 1 and half hrs, my car battery run flat! OMG… So, i asked my best fren for any mechanic for help. This mechanic is a very efficient man.. he called me 1 min later i hang up my phone with my buddy and promised to come within 30 min. In the end, I waited for 2 hours in the school for him to come.. Damm it..Cant wait to get out of the working place in the end have to stay there for so damm long.. Luckily, fisher come down n accompany 1st.

Luckily, Fisher treated me to eat thai food at suntec.. See the food we have..

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Look very nice rite? but the food is so so niah… 

Then we went to have some desert at bugis area with meiyun and i packed some for my parents. In the end, i left it in my car and forget about it..  Waste my money siah…  Think i getting old…

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Working Life

July 21st, 2006 by ashie

Hi everybody, it been a long long time since I last come in to put in some shit into my blog.

Hm.. where should I start….

Every time when I recalled the last day of school, there is always a sharp pain in my heart. I really missed those good times in rp…..

Hey republican, I missed all of you……..

Including the auntie selling drink in the canteen…. LOLx

After I left rp, I went to look for a full time job for about 3 months. For a fresh gradates like me, it is so hard to look for a job in the market because most of the companies only hire in those with experience.

Hey come on lah, if you don’t give fresh gradates a chance, how are we going to have relevant working experience.

I considered quite lucky. During the period of job searching, I received 4 offered out of the 5 interviews. So have you found a job yet?

Currently, I was working as a Training and Sales Executive. The position name sound cool right? Lolx…. My job scope is to teach kids how to use some of the computer software and some ad hoc stuff in the company. Anyway, it is just title for my position; I don’t feel that I do look like one of the executive.

My secondary school friends laughed at me. They used to called me as BIG AH LIAN in my secondary school times and yet I going to teach. Can you imagine: A so called “ah lian” (in the past) has to teach those students who behave exactly like me? They even teased me, say I will teach the student how to skip class, fight in school and etc. Furthermore, I used to bully my teachers so often in my secondary school time. Haha… I think this is my retribution and learning to accept it. =(

I had been post in CHIJ Pri (toa payoh) for a month for relieved and yet times have flew so fast, I already been there the 4th week. Everything is great there but except the food.

I can use 5 “N” to describe the food:

  • No Taste,
  • No Salt,
  • No Oil and
  • Nua Nua one.

Haha.. Okie, I think I going to stop saying about my job.

I had just celebrated my 22nd birthday last week. I am getting old… My parents start to complain,

“When are you going to have a bf?”

For your info, I have not introduced any of my bf to my parents yet because I think it is not the time yet. OMG… I have been single for 2 and the half years. Can anyone send some good guys to me?

Nevertheless, I still behave like18  years old ….. Cheers!

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Useless cert

April 3rd, 2006 by ashie

Good time flew and bad time clawed. 3 years of Poly life had ended 5 weeks ago. To me, I felt that I had left school for quite sometimes. I really missed the fun I had in RP. The cheerful me, will never be sitting still in class, will be walking around the campus saying and talking to different people. Missing those days badly….

Anyway, our life needs to be continued.

I felt abit sad when one of my good friends in rp had been enlisted in NS. Everyone had to process to another stage of our life. Furthermore, I need a full time job badly. What will I be? Or what can I be? A graphic designer, a production assistant, a MM educator, good sale person or a hawker?

Anyone had good tips on writing cover letters and interviews? Haha… I think I had learnt them twice( once in ITE and once in RP). I just simply hate that. Why cant our cert help us skip the interview session?

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Rubbish me

January 16th, 2006 by ashie

Feel like writing all my rubbish and thoughs for so many days and now i did it. Wee….

A formal greeting from PRETTY ASH ASH:

How you guys are doing? Miss my blog and me mah? haha

Just came back from RP Open house at Woodland campus. I think the woodland campus is going to be real big.. Just only the administration tower is open for the public and you can see that it is damm freaking big.. lolx Found something interesting in the open house today and very confused now. There is a gadget with a meter that shows how much electricity that I could conduct. I placed my both hands on 2 pieces of metal part and the needle of the meter rose rapidly and excided the meter can control. Vanwie and Shuxian conduct the same experience but vanwie’s result is 80 and Shuxian was less than 10. Can someone tell me what is it for?

Oh, you guys had been wondering where had I gone to, am I right? Recently was very busy with my FYP and couldn’t do much help on it. We had been moving very slowly for it too. All the things seem to be going against us. I could feel the stress from it. My bad habit had come back. I noticed that I had been eating a lot this few days. I already so fat liao, can don’t put on weight from eating? Lolx..

Good news to report to all of you, I already passed my Personal Profiling module and my CE points. Now I only left the Final year project. Wish me good luck, ok?

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Blogs Updated

December 7th, 2005 by ashie

Hello everybody, do you guys miss my blogs and me, of course? lolx.. Really very very long never come to this page and blogs… So how you guys are doing?

I had to apologize that I had not keep my blogs update frequently, you guys know that I am a busy person- also known as busy body.. hahaha~!

FYP is such a boring thing to do. Why SIT has to have 2 FYPs? Just cannot make it.. Although it is the beginning of the holiday, I could foresee that this holiday will be very busy with my FYP. Luckily, my shooting for FYP is already half done, few more days will be completed the shooting part. Wish me good luck lor…. However, we still need to do editing footages and a website for the short film that we had come out. Could somebody kill all SIT facilitators so I do not need to do my FYP anymore? Lolx.. *harmless, just giving stupid comments*

Haiz.. I was so unlucky. I knocked into someone’s car on Sunday night and ended compensating $600 to another parties. Why do have to be I so careless?

Anyway, Christmas is around the corner, so let me wish you guys the warmest Merry Xmas and a Happy New Year.. Good luck everybody and please do enjoy this 2 festivals.

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meaningless life

October 10th, 2005 by ashie

My life is getting more and more meanlingless. Maybe school had just resumed. Nowsaday, I had to change my bad habit (I took a taxi almost every morning to school for the last semenster unless i am driving). I tend to take mrt trains and bus more frequently. Waking up so early in the morning, pulling myself to the bathroom and bath. The most part is taking trian to school. The trian is full of people in the morning. I hate to squeeze public transport because it is so smelly, no seat during peak hours and time taken is long. Lucily, morning trian wasn’t too smelly because almost everyone had just bath. However,I feel it is still so terrible. 

Even I came into the class, i do not know what is going on. I can’t pay attention in class. I stare at the PC screen and daydream. Only time I am alert when it is the time for smoking and eating break.

The worst part is I became so broke recently. I can’t do those happy thing i do in the past. Like go shopping like no body business, instead of window shopping.  Or go Ktv as i wish rather than walk around on the street. No one date me for movie or dinner anymore. Haiz, my charm not with me anymore.

Or worst thing is I am still single. I think my life will be more fulfilled with lover around. So, You guys wanna  intro some good guys to me???

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a series of unfortunate events

September 28th, 2005 by ashie

After a long day working at suntec, I decided to join my friends and her friends for kopi session at Tampinese interchange Macdonald.

It was fun chatting with new friends at the beginning. However, somethings had happen…..

An 80 years old grandma, suddenly appeared from my back. At first, I thought she was a beggar asking for some money or cigratte. Then she said something in hokkien which i hardly understanded. The one and only word I could understand from her is "teng" (go back).

I looked at my friends worrily. A metally ill old grandma. Oh my god! She then pulled my chair handle and looked at my direction. I dared not turn around and look at her.  She said the same thing again~! My heart was beating even more faster. I worried that she might hit me. After few minutes of silence, she walked away.

We noticed that she did not wear any shoe. My friends then told me she was asking someone to bring her home.Oh my god, what a sad case. I think her children dont want her and she despeartly looking for children love. I think that she is quite poor thing then (but still very horrible). I was praying hard that she will not come back to my table again while she was lottering around the macdonald to look for people to bring her home.

Oh, i thought my horror was over. Something bad happen again.

Something fly so fast toward my face. I turned around and use my hand to protect my eyes and kept it away from me. A scratchy feeling scratch over my face. I thought it was a big moth flying at this hour. But when we know what is it. It was a FLYING COCROACH. yUCKS~! By the way, i not afarid of cocroach one. But this time was exception.  I was thinking What a bad day man!

Oh, we can’t stay that horrible place anymore, so we left the place. And now, i feel so safe at home blogging.

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Holiday Wang Sui

September 13th, 2005 by ashie

Wow, I like holiday because I can go and work as part time during weekdays. So, i will got more money buy my favourite thing.

After This holiday I am planning to buy:

  • Mp3 player
  • Liquid foundation
  • 1G SD card for my camera

anyone wan to sponsor me? Haha!!

Haiz.. Holiday pass so fast. One week had gone and today is the 1st day of the 2nd weeks of holiday.

Last week, my house air con spoilt again. I had no choice but to sleep at the guest room man. Argh! I hate bed with soft spring! It will only hurt my back.

Luckily, my air con is back to life. My lovely bed can make u slp till song song till next morning. However, the shiok feeling sleeping on my own bed cos me late for work today. Hahaha.

Sometimes is kind of boring working. You guys free come down suntec to look for me to talk awhile okie?

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